Personalities
While not a frequent comment, I do get told at times by a new enquirant that they didn't like or relate to the previous psychic they saw. I ask the people like that why they didn't talk to the psychic about that at the time they saw them. I will then tell them not to consult psychics they don't like. I think that covers this concept well enough, but if you need more in-depth on that concept, the rest of it is below... Go get a coffee, water or tea as preferred... |
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when a person had gratuitously praised that psychic to the psychic's face BEFORE and possibly DURING their consult with them, only to then as if a light globe blew, turned to loudly lambasting the psychic to others afterwards... which they are now doing in talking about that past psychic to me on the phone.
They will assert, with great veracity "I knew they were (insert terms from the words "crap" to "evil" and anything in between) before I saw them I should have listened to myself....
I would certainly agree they needed to listen to themselves, but not in the way they might -on a surface level -think.
I would generally tell ask them, although rhetorically, why they didn't talk directly to that psychic about how they felt, instead of bringing it to someone who wasn't there.
And I would instead get them to consider the following points....
After all, that person reached exactly the outcome they put (a lot of) energy into creating, didn't they...
And, IF after all of that, they are talking to me about that, why didn't they instead talk to the psychic at any point in that journey of not liking them about the fact that they didn't like them and what that psychic had to say, and instead telling me? Chances are the issue they had with that psychic had nothing to do with the psychic really, and everything to do with that person.
As a psychic, If I feel someone is building up that kind of energy towards me before their booking, I am most times going to get in ahead and either not accept the booking or cancel it soon after accepting... I will help those who I can help, but I will not book someone in that situation.
I don't want to waste their time and energy and won't expose myself to that kind of ongoing energy either. I might say I need to get back to them just so I can consider their energy, while I step back from the intensity. And, may later advise I am not going to offer my services to them but wish them well on their journey.
If I cancel or refuse, I am grateful when people are respectful of that, it may have had nothing to do with personalities and everything to do with timing. But I feel especially vindicated when out of proportion and ongoing vitriolic retaliation comes in response to a very -careful to be- polite cancellation or refusal that I made, which gives proof that in that case it wasn't timing, it was definitely personality... And sometimes personalities clash. I can't help how people may act. I can help how I respond.
They will assert, with great veracity "I knew they were (insert terms from the words "crap" to "evil" and anything in between) before I saw them I should have listened to myself....
I would certainly agree they needed to listen to themselves, but not in the way they might -on a surface level -think.
I would generally tell ask them, although rhetorically, why they didn't talk directly to that psychic about how they felt, instead of bringing it to someone who wasn't there.
And I would instead get them to consider the following points....
- IF they didn't like a psychic because they doubted the genuine positive reviews they have received, why did they look up the psychic's number?
- IF after doubting them, and not liking them, and looking up the psychic's number, why did they call the psychic?
- IF after doubting them, and not liking them, and looking up the psychic's number, and then calling the psychic, and still not liking them in the phone call, why did they then book an appointment?
- IF after doubting the psychic, and not liking them, and looking up the psychic's number, and then calling the psychic, and still not liking them in the phone call, and still proceeding by booking an appointment with a psychic they don't like, and not liking the way the psychic's consulting location appears when they arrived. And, not liking the psychic's consulting room, not liking the psychic, and not liking the way they appear, talk, and express at the booking, and as a result, not feeling open to anything the psychic says. How did you expect to relate to anything said by the psychic in the reading when not liking the way it's presented and thus not feeling it relates? What result did they really expect when they had proceeded to book someone they didn't relate to from the outset. Someone they felt no rapport with at any point along the journey, and someone towards whom they have been working hard at building up a misplaced and projected resentment toward all along the way?
After all, that person reached exactly the outcome they put (a lot of) energy into creating, didn't they...
And, IF after all of that, they are talking to me about that, why didn't they instead talk to the psychic at any point in that journey of not liking them about the fact that they didn't like them and what that psychic had to say, and instead telling me? Chances are the issue they had with that psychic had nothing to do with the psychic really, and everything to do with that person.
As a psychic, If I feel someone is building up that kind of energy towards me before their booking, I am most times going to get in ahead and either not accept the booking or cancel it soon after accepting... I will help those who I can help, but I will not book someone in that situation.
I don't want to waste their time and energy and won't expose myself to that kind of ongoing energy either. I might say I need to get back to them just so I can consider their energy, while I step back from the intensity. And, may later advise I am not going to offer my services to them but wish them well on their journey.
If I cancel or refuse, I am grateful when people are respectful of that, it may have had nothing to do with personalities and everything to do with timing. But I feel especially vindicated when out of proportion and ongoing vitriolic retaliation comes in response to a very -careful to be- polite cancellation or refusal that I made, which gives proof that in that case it wasn't timing, it was definitely personality... And sometimes personalities clash. I can't help how people may act. I can help how I respond.
Readings are all about rapport of energy. Only see psychic mediums that you feel drawn to, comfortable with, and respect for. You will save yourself and them time, money, and energy.
Some people are negative about psychics for all kinds of reasons, from how they looked to what they wore, to how they spoke to what tools or energies they worked with and utilised.
Usually people making the most judgement about how a psychic works tend to have the least experience in that topic...
It's your choice who you consult. If you don't like them, don't see them, they will generally have a lot of compassion for you even if you don't feel or intend the same towards them.
Some people are negative about psychics for all kinds of reasons, from how they looked to what they wore, to how they spoke to what tools or energies they worked with and utilised.
Usually people making the most judgement about how a psychic works tend to have the least experience in that topic...
It's your choice who you consult. If you don't like them, don't see them, they will generally have a lot of compassion for you even if you don't feel or intend the same towards them.